Have you ever wondered why you overeat, even when you genuinely want to stop? Most advice teaches us what to eat. Far less attention is given to why we eat.
As both an eating psychology coach and someone living in recovery from compulsive eating, I’ve learned that overeating often makes far more sense when you dig beneath the surface. By understanding the psychology behind overeating, we can discover the deeper emotional needs that food sometimes represents.
In this guide, we’ll explore 9 of the most common psychological reasons for overeating and what current research tells us about them. Hopefully, by exploring the “why” behind our eating habits, we can pave the way towards more self-compassion and peace with food.
The Biggest Psychological Driver of Overeating
You can think of the psychology behind overeating like an onion: it has many, many layers. Before we start peeling them back, it helps to begin with one of the broadest and most recognizable: emotional eating, the familiar pattern of turning to food in response to emotions rather than physical hunger.
Difficult emotions are the side of emotional eating we hear about most often. Feelings like boredom and stress are notorious for increasing food cravings.[1] And people who have a harder time regulating unpleasant emotions may also be more vulnerable to emotional eating.[2], [3]
But emotional eating isn’t limited to feeling bad. It can also occur in response to positive emotions.[4] In fact, a recent 2026 study found that cravings were strongest during positive emotions overall.[5]
Emotional eating is more nuanced than simply “feeling bad makes us eat.” Food can become connected with many emotional states, from stress and boredom to celebration, excitement, and pleasure.
Many of us can relate to both sides of the coin. We may crave snacks during a stressful workday, but we may also crave something sweet during a birthday party, celebration, or social gathering.
Then there are the emotions that occur after overeating. When food becomes a primary coping strategy, it can lead to guilt, frustration, and the belief that you simply lack willpower.
Many people respond to overeating by becoming even more restrictive with food—which can create both psychological and biological pushback.[6], [7], [8]
Research suggests that restrictive dieting can increase the risk of binge eating under certain conditions, while calorie restriction can heighten hunger and make weight-loss maintenance more difficult.[7], [8], [9]
In other words, what feels like a failure of willpower may sometimes be a predictable response to deprivation. And once we stop mistaking deprivation for a character flaw, we can begin looking beneath the behavior to understand what else may be driving it.
9 Psychological Reasons for Overeating
Each psychological driver behind overeating can reveal something important about your behaviors, emotions, and motivations around food. The more clearly you understand what’s fueling the pattern, the easier it becomes to respond with curiosity instead of self-criticism and create meaningful, lasting change.
So, instead of focusing on what we eat, let’s turn our attention to why we eat. Here are 9 psychological reasons for overeating:
1. The Hidden Benefits Behind Self-Sabotage
In my experience, one of the biggest psychological reasons for overeating is that the struggle itself may provide a hidden benefit—even when you consciously want it to stop. At first glance, this might seem absurd. How can overeating possibly offer any benefit? Yet, when we dive deeper and peel back the layers, you may discover that overeating serves as a subconscious form of protection.
For example, take the concept of people-pleasing. People who focus on pleasing others may find that their overeating is linked to preserving certain social dynamics. If weight loss were to disrupt these dynamics—like causing friends with similar weight challenges to distance themselves—the resulting cognitive dissonance can be unsettling.
Part of you may want to change, while another part worries about what that change could cost you socially. When overeating helps preserve belonging or familiarity, stopping can feel more threatening than it seems.
What might your eating habits be protecting—or revealing—about you? Even if you struggle with overeating, you still have strengths to build on. Take my quiz to discover your eating psychology strength.
2. When Emotional Hunger Feels Like Physical Hunger
Physical hunger is the body’s biological signal for energy replenishment. It typically develops gradually and causes physical sensations such as an empty feeling in the stomach or light-headedness.
Emotional hunger is driven by emotions rather than the body’s need for sustenance. It can emerge suddenly and intensely in response to strong emotions, whether negative or positive.[10] When someone eats in response to emotional hunger, or eats beyond the limits of physical hunger, it can perpetuate overeating.
This psychological reason for overeating can become even more complicated for anyone with a long history of dieting. Dieting often requires denial of physical hunger, which can diminish the ability to identify what physical hunger feels like.
3. Why Stress Makes Food Harder to Resist
Stress exerts a complex influence on overeating, affecting our eating habits through a combination of psychological and biological factors. First, let’s look at how stress influences our eating behavior through its impact on hormones.
- Cortisol: One of the primary ways stress contributes to overeating is through the release of cortisol, the “stress hormone.” Cortisol is linked to an increased appetite and a preference for high-calorie “comfort foods.”[11]
- Ghrelin: Stress can temporarily increase ghrelin, an appetite-regulating hormone involved in hunger and food-seeking behavior.[12]
- Insulin: Stress can also affect blood sugar and insulin regulation, but the connection between stress and cravings is more complex than insulin alone.[11], [13]
Stress can influence appetite, the brain’s reward system, and food cravings in several overlapping ways, which helps explain why certain foods can feel especially compelling when we’re overwhelmed.[1]
Stress around food itself can also become part of the cycle. Calorie counting isn’t universally harmful, but for some people, constantly monitoring food can turn eating into yet another source of pressure.[14] That pressure can easily harden into rigid food rules, which brings us to another psychological driver behind overeating.
4. How Food Rules Make Cravings Louder
Psychologically, restriction can increase feelings of deprivation and make us think about food even more.[15], [16] It’s a frustrating cycle where we try to think about food less in order to avoid it, and we often end up thinking about it more.
A recent 2026 review found that restrictive dieting was linked with binge eating in many of the studies examined, particularly when difficult emotions were also involved.[8]
Research also shows that psychological deprivation can occur regardless of caloric intake.[16] Even if you are not formally dieting but aim to limit certain foods, it can trigger the restrict-binge cycle.
For instance, one study found that avoiding chocolate increased cravings among people who were already chocolate cravers, even though they weren’t physically deprived of calories.[17] So you can avoid a beloved food, even without counting calories or dieting, and still end up craving that particular food even more.
5. Why “Sugar Addiction” Is More Complicated Than It Seems
Sugar addiction is a controversial topic, especially in regard to the psychology of overeating. Animal research has produced some striking findings, including studies where rats strongly preferred sweet rewards over drug rewards.[18] But those findings don’t automatically mean that sugar affects humans in the same way an addictive drug does.[19] Let’s explore both sides of the argument.
Proponents of sugar addiction argue that sugar triggers a release of dopamine in the brain similar to addictive substances, which reinforces the desire to seek out more sugar. On the other side of the argument, most studies conducted on sugar addiction were conducted in rats.
To further complicate matters, most sugar addiction studies gave rats intermittent access to sugar, which does not control for the psychological effect of anticipated food deprivation.
That distinction matters because simply expecting food restriction can change how we eat. In one study, restrained eaters who believed they were about to start a diet ate more beforehand than those who weren’t expecting to diet.[20]
The urge to eat as much as possible today because tomorrow the food will be forbidden is a pattern commonly known as “last supper eating,” and it’s a strong psychological trigger behind overeating.
In my workbook, Stopping Sugar Addiction the Psycho-Spiritual Way, I unpack the psychology behind sugar cravings. I find it important to acknowledge the addictive qualities of sugar without getting hung up there. The reward circuit in the brain is not to be ignored, but it’s far more empowering to focus on what you can control versus what you can’t.
6. When Cleaning Your Plate Overrides Fullness
The fear of wasting food can create powerful pressure to keep eating, especially for people who feel guilty leaving even one bite behind. Research has linked concerns about food waste with a stronger tendency to clean the plate.[21]
The study did not find that these concerns predicted how much people actually ate or what they weighed. Feeling compelled to clean your plate is not necessarily the same as consistently eating more overall. Still, the habit can make it harder to stop eating when you have had enough—and it often begins long before adulthood.
Perhaps you were told that you had to finish everything on your plate before you could be excused from the table. Child-care providers may also praise children for cleaning their plates in an attempt to please parents, even though children are naturally capable of regulating their own energy intake.[22]
Over time, these messages can teach you to treat an empty plate as the signal that a meal is over. This can become especially problematic at restaurants, where portions are often large enough to encourage overeating when the impulse to avoid waste overrides your body’s cues.
7. When a Fast-Paced Life Shows Up at the Table
When we eat too fast, we often don’t have enough time to register feelings of fullness, which can lead to overeating.[23] While this is a biological mechanism behind a tendency to eat past fullness, there’s also a psychological component to this overeating pattern as well.
According to Geneen Roth, renowned author in the field of emotional eating, “The way we do one thing is the way we do everything.” If you struggle with eating too fast, it’s possible that your life is also fast-paced, and this can spill over into your relationship with food.
Consider the lifestyle of many professionals in high-pressure environments. The demands of their work often require rapid decision-making, multitasking, and constant engagement. This relentless pace can inadvertently carry over to their eating habits, leading to rushed meals where they barely register what or how much they’re consuming.
In this scenario, advice to “just eat slower” is as unhelpful as advice to “just stop overeating.” Eating patterns must be addressed holistically with an approach that honors both biological and psychological needs.
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8. Why Eating What You “Should” Can Backfire
One psychological cause of overeating is the missing element of satisfaction, which is often overlooked due to diet culture. When we diet, we tend to focus solely on what we “should” and “shouldn’t” eat, neglecting whether our food choices genuinely satisfy us.
This oversight can lead to feelings of deprivation and a lack of satisfaction after eating, creating fertile ground for overeating. When we don’t feel satisfied, we’re more likely to seek out additional food in an attempt to fill that void, even if we’re not physically hungry.
Imagine craving a warm slice of pizza for dinner but choosing a salad instead, even though it’s not what you want. While the salad may fill you up physically, it won’t satisfy your craving, leaving you with a persistent desire for more food.
In an effort to avoid the pizza, you might find yourself snacking on one small item after another. However, this often leads to eventually giving in and eating the pizza you wanted in the first place, perpetuating the restrict-binge cycle.
9. How Your Environment Quietly Shapes What You Eat
If you’ve ever struggled with the internal tug-of-war over tempting office snacks, you’re not alone. Our immediate environment can quietly influence eating behavior. In one experiment, people were less likely to take a snack when it was placed farther away, showing how something as simple as proximity can shape our choices.[24]
That doesn’t make environmental design a cure for compulsive eating, but it does remind us that eating behavior never occurs in a vacuum.
For some people, keeping food out of sight will indeed keep it out of mind. However, if this doesn’t work for you, it does not necessarily mean that you lack willpower. In the presence of other psychological triggers for overeating, such as stress or deprivation, environmental design is minor.
The Psychology of Overeating Is Best Explained by Someone Who’s Been There
Can you relate to any of these psychological triggers? I’ll share some practical strategies for addressing the psychology of overeating shortly, but first I need to set the record straight about some unfortunate advice on this particular topic from Psychology Today.
In one of their articles on the psychology of overeating, the author states, “From speaking to adults and children, I came up with 40 rationalizations for why individuals justify their overeating. They include ‘watching what I eat is too hard,’ ‘it’s low-fat/fat-free,’ ‘I will make up for it later,’ ‘I’ll burn it off later,’ ‘I don’t usually eat this,’ ‘it’s free,’ ‘everyone else is eating it,’… ‘healthy food doesn’t taste as good’…” The list goes on (last accessed January 17, 2024).
I was shocked when I read this article, which was written by a psychologist. That quote is unrelatable at best and offensive at worst. The author accuses overeaters of using rationalizations to “justify” overeating behavior—as if overeating is something that we want to be doing.
While many psychologists are compassionate, that article was not written from a point of compassion. It was written from a place of disconnection and a lack of empathy. After over a decade of experience as an eating psychology coach, no one has ever shared rationalizations like that with me.
In fact, the problems I see most frequently are people trying too hard to “eat perfectly” and restricting their diets too much. Then, the restriction causes unintended biological and psychological backlash in the form of compulsive eating.
From what I have seen, overeaters don’t think that watching what they eat is too hard—they arguably care about it too much, to the point of preoccupation and obsession with food.
They don’t focus on low-fat/fat-free—they are petrified of carbs and yet they crave carbs so much that they overeat.
They don’t struggle with not “making up for it later,” they might actually overwork as a coping mechanism, leaving them too exhausted for even basic self-care.
From what I have seen in my line of work, we almost know too much about what good food and exercise entail, and it motivates us to push our bodies too far and focus all our energy on diets that don’t work instead of the psychology behind overeating.
Perhaps that psychologist only came to her conclusion because many compulsive eaters struggle with shame. When talking about something as personal and vulnerable as overeating, we might “armor up” to protect ourselves from judgment by sharing “rationalizations” to deflect our tender insecurities.
In short, I strongly disagree that most overeaters rationalize their eating habits. Most overeaters berate themselves and are their own worst critic when it comes to eating past fullness. To help with this, let’s look at steps to stop overeating rooted in self-compassion.
I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help. Discover a more compassionate way to understand and respond to the urge to overeat with my free 13-page ebook, The Spiritual Seeker’s Guide to Stop Binge Eating. If you’ve been nodding along so far, it’s the perfect next step.
How to Overcome the Psychological Triggers for Overeating
With self-compassion as our foundation—coming from someone that has been there in the trenches of compulsive eating—let’s explore practical steps to navigate and overcome the psychological reasons for overeating.
Here are some evidence-based steps you can take to address the psychology behind overeating and develop a healthier and more balanced relationship with food:
Address limiting beliefs
Cognitive dissonance occurs when our beliefs don’t match our behaviors, leading to self-sabotage. My workbook, Why We Do the Things We Do, is designed to help you uncover and challenge these limiting beliefs—specifically on the topics of food, weight, and body image—to directly address the psychology behind overeating.
Utilize tools for emotional eating
There is now particularly encouraging evidence for approaches that work directly with the emotions behind eating. Recent research found that emotion-focused treatments can help reduce binge eating, with results comparable to other active psychological treatments.[25]
To enhance emotion-regulation, you need to practice it. Start by employing tools like my Stop, Drop, & Feel® technique, which encourages you to drop into your emotions in the precise moment that you want to overeat. This requires sitting still with emotional discomfort, which leads to the next step.
Foster emotional tolerance
Perhaps the most noteworthy skill within emotional self-regulation is emotional tolerance, or distress tolerance, which refers to your ability to sit still with discomfort. People with greater distress tolerance may be less vulnerable to loss-of-control eating when emotions are difficult to manage.[26]
As you practice holding space for the uncomfortable emotions that bubble up during the Stop, Drop, & Feel, you increase your ability to tolerate them without feeling the urge to overeat.
Reduce stress
Stress is both a biological and psychological trigger for overeating.[13] Mindfulness-based approaches may be one useful way to work with stress. A recent review found that these interventions can help reduce binge eating compared with non-psychological approaches.[27]
However, mindfulness did not appear clearly better than other active psychological treatments, which suggests that it can be a useful tool without needing to be the only tool.[27] Some individuals may need to take it a step further and reassess stressful occupations, which can be a big undertaking but helpful for both mental and physical well-being.
Enjoy the food you eat
Eating pleasure has emerged as a facilitator for healthy eating, and Canada has even included enjoyment of food as a healthy eating recommendation.[28] If you love to eat, embrace it; and if you struggle with feeling judged for eating “forbidden foods,” remind yourself of the power of reverse psychology. Letting yourself eat foods that you enjoy can help promote satisfaction and reduce the tendency to overeat when meals are void of pleasure.
Work alongside a professional
Collaborating with a dietitian, therapist, or a board-certified health and wellness coach like myself can provide tailored guidance and support in addressing the psychological aspects of overeating.
Understanding the “Why” Changes What Comes Next
Awareness is the first step towards change. Once you can identify the psychological blocks to overeating that hold you back, you can work on releasing them. On your unique journey, be sure to utilize plenty of psychology-based tools like the Stop, Drop, & Feel, giving yourself permission to eat the foods that genuinely appeal to you, and uncovering limiting beliefs that otherwise fuel self-sabotage around food.
Celebrate your curiosity and willingness to turn inward and work on your mindset, a powerful and often-overlooked step for addressing overeating. To learn more about my psychology-based approach to stopping compulsive eating, I highly recommend my free ebook and complimentary 5-day email course, which are all available below:
I am finding this post today, and it is making a lot of sense to me. I’ve never heard of you before, but I like how you write and explain things. It’s a Sunday morning, and I am reading anything I can find on the emotional reasons for overeating. Yesterday was extremely tough for me, with uncomfortable emotions swirling around – lots of self-doubt, self-recrimination, lack of self-love. Lots of tears of anguish. Today I know I have work to do, and I found your pages and I am understanding what I am reading. I will go on to read all of your posts. You are doing a good thing. Keep going. There are those of us who need it. It is helping. Thank you.
Oh my goodness Mary thank you so much for your comment! It means so much know that this helped you. These are the lessons that took me a long time to figure out, and I’m SO happy to hear that they’re what you needed to.
I completely get your struggle, both with overeating and lack of self-love. It’s intimately connected with the reason why we compulsively and emotionally eat. Thank you for sharing part of your story with me. We are in this together!
Thank you so much for this encouragement. It can be very difficult to stop dieting. I always seem to need some form of guideline to eat by. I can never keep it up for long though, then I binge. I’ve sort of resigned myself to that fact as I’ve been doing this for over 40 years.
I know de o down that dieting isn’t the answer but I can’t seem to help myself sometimes.
These suggestions you’ve given seem good, reasonable and sensible. I will give it a try and let you know how it goes. Diane
I completely understand you Diane. Thanks for the comment 🙂 I will be very interested to know how it goes for you! Please do keep me posted.
Hi Kari!
I’ve recently started this whole psycho spiritual, intuitive eating thing for about a week. I’m having trouble determining whether my cravings for eating are my body actually telling myself to eat, or if they’re the urge to eat to emotionally numb myself or if its hedonic eating. How do you read your hunger cues?
I’ve also read Geneen Roth’s book ‘When you eat at the refrigeraor pull up a chair’, and she talks about ‘fat and ugly attacks’. I’m wondering how you deal with this?
Thanks!
The confusion around hunger is totally normal. I would actually encourage you to start focusing on emotion whenever you’re confused by your hunger. In time, you’ll get back in touch with the physical sensations of hunger, and focusing on emotion (right now) will help you untangle emotional hunger from hunger-hunger. (Also, hedonic eating is the same as emotional eating, except the main emotion is boredom or void.) As far as the ‘fat and ugly attacks’ I’m not exaaactly sure because I haven’t read that particular book : ) but the insecurities around body image tend to unwind as we unravel the food rules and find peace with ourselves. I hope this helps!!!
This is very insightful and makes sense. I am going to practice it. Thankyou.
Thanks Audrey!
Kari,
I read your article in October 2019 and practiced it for the last 2 months. I was in tune with my desire to eat. It was definitely the effort to soften emotional pain. Since then I’ve gained an additional 10 lbs. it hurts to see the real you. I’m practicing self-love and willing to be uncomfortable. I’m determined to resolve the deeper problem. I can’t find your info on stop dieting, please share the link. Thank you for helping us avoid being miserable from now on. I needed this.
Joy this is amazing! I know the early stages are tough, but keep going.
I just started to follow your blog. Moment ago, I had peanuts quite an amount (I love nuts it makes me crazy) . Think back, due to my still undergoing IBS symptoms, I stop eating peanuts for more than 4 years… after almost finish I felt yuck… I always felt so and den my desire over the comfort food was gone. Lately my intakes was abit haywire due to anxiety… sigh
It’s not an easy time for many of us, so this all seems quite understandable right?! I hope you can find compassion for yourself <3
I’m new here as well and I’m trying to dig deeper into my why’s of my eating and weight gain. I’ve really never been at my ideal weight and have always LOVED sugar and truly feel addicted to it. I know it holds me back from feeling my best but yeah I feel addicted to it and have a hard time eating it in healthy ranges. I did the whole conversation with my fat exercise thing and am hoping to be inspired by it but I’m also nervous that my many years of habit will prevail. I want to have a healthy relationship with sugar but not sure that I can because I definitely enjoy the pleasure of eating it. I’m not sure that my convo with my fat went as it should have but I just kinda let the pen roll across the paper. Anyway. I intend on checking out more of your work. I have paid for the Eat Right now app which sounds like it may have similar roots but I didn’t stick with it. I want out of the cycle but my addiction makes me feel like I don’t. Help! Haha
Hi Heidi, I wish I could coach you so that I could learn more about how the dialogue with Fat went. Do you have my book or workbook? The workbook is probably the most powerful option for you, because it helps us understand why we do all the things that we’re frustrated about doing. I personally don’t think sugar addiction is the real problem — it always comes back to a feeling or a belief. Once we get the psychology taken care of, the “sugar addiction” becomes very easy to overcome.
I am just finding you today. I have never been willing to tackle my overeating as an adult because I eat for love, I think. I was the correct weight as a child as I was a swimmer. But, I was never loved as a child, never nurtured, never touched. It continues today despite my best efforts searching for a male partner for decades. I have a true sugar addition and now having medical issues, but it change my behaviors.
Oh Heidi! I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a big hug right now!!! You are a true warrior for going through what you have gone through, and I admire your strength. And I hope you can see how strong you are too <3
I have purchased the workbook, etc. but it does not let me type into the blocks provided. Do I have to print it out and then write by hand in response to the questions?
Hi Nancy! I emailed you directly with some extra help here. Thanks for supporting my work 🙂
Hello 🙂
This article was really helpful. I never really did any kind of diet, because I didn’t want to struggle with food the way I struggle with other problems life has to offer. But I am now at a place in my life where I want to adres all my emotional problems and to do so I have to start with the way I cope with these emotions, which is eating. So this article is exactly what I needed!
Everytime I try to become the person I know I am I get stuck, because I can’t seem to get rid of this cycle I created to keep myself safe. But now it’s time so realize I’m safe and stop resisting the emotions and feel and understand them.
Thanks to this article I have got a place to start.
Greetings
I am so glad you found this article helpful Cheyenne. I was considering condensing it because it is one of the longest posts that I have, but it sounds like it’s helpful as it is 🙂 so thanks for your feedback, and I wish you the best of luck on this brand new journey! Keep me posted. Feeling the feels is one of the hardest decisions I ever made (and repeatedly have to make) but also the most rewarding.
I thought this was a great piece. Well laid out. My son has an overeating problem, and I was looking for help. There’s a lot of great info and truth here. I’d never made the connection to ‘people pleasing’ but it makes sense. Thank you for this.
Thanks Brett! I am glad it was helpful, and it means a lot that you made it to the end of the article 🙂 it’s one of the longest ones I have!
Kari, I’ve known when and what set me down to overeating I’m just not sure how to rewire myself? My now ex-husband was insecure before we married and I remember the comment he made about the way I dressed (ironically that’s what got his attention). The short of it was I didn’t want him to feel that way which changed everything about the person he supposedly fell in love with. Snowballing into who I am after 25 years of marriage and countless other women he’d actually move me out to move them in. I’d become frozen and the last affair he had I had to live in the driveway because I’d become disabled and while I was in the hospital he moved her in and spent everything I’d saved. This was my fault because I felt guilty because I was in the hospital and I wanted to comfort him so I gave him access to my savings. I kept telling myself that my illness was hard on him because I’d been the breadwinner and took care of everything till the disease put me down. I could always find excuses for him doing me wrong. And he’d eventually be back asking for another chance. The only good thing I have achieved is actually moving away and divorcing him. It’s only paper though because I still let him in any time he wants. Anyway, I’m rambling. I just know where it started just not how to make it end. I have such a sick opinion of myself and can’t shake it. I weighed 105 before then 170 while married and now I’m 202. I blame my health but my health should be motivating. I know I’d probably feel less pain if I lost weight. I’d probably actually feel like I didn’t have to settle for being used and shut the door on my ex. And be confident in me like I used to be.
Sorry for the rambling . I appreciate your information and I’m going to keep moving towards finding the cure for my self inflicted insanity.
Greatly appreciated,
Kim
Hi Kim, thank you so much for bravely sharing your story. I am sure that anyone who reads this will feel enormous compassion for you – I know I do! You have been through so much. And even if it doesn’t feel like it, you are showing up for yourself. You are showing up for yourself by looking around for the answer. To me, this is incredible because it means you’re ready for change, and I am confident that you’ll find it. Those who don’t look for answers often can’t make the breakthrough; but those who search are the ones who discover. I’m being cheesy, but I feel compelled to shine a light on how far you’ve come versus focusing on how far there is to go. You have lots of heavy emotions to move through, and perhaps you can start there. Feeling and healing. <3 I send so many hugs your way!!!
I’m sitting at my son’s home enjoying the holidays. I shared with my son and daughter in law I must work on why i emotionally over eat. I’m 100 lbs overweight. This excess weight is causing many health issues. I’ve dieted many times. Yo-Yo, lose weight, go back to eating, gain even more weight back. I googled the subject and there you were. The article was spot on and I will begin to evaluate and become more aware of “what empty space” I’m trying to fill. Saying that right there brings on so many emotions, memories and low self worth. I’m excited about taking these baby steps to a healthier life. Thank you so much.
Helen, this is such a meaningful story. You are so brave!! Knowing that it brings up heavy emotions as you type it, I know you’re onto something big. And it warms my heart that you already know this to be true. Your intuition is strong, and I have no doubt that this inner work will unlock something big for you <3 This is so powerful!!
I am really enjoying and relating to all this. I know this is a spiritual journey. I like learning about the brain part too. So, with eating when hungry, what if I’m not hungry until after 10 or 11am. Should I make myself eat in the morning anyway? I normally have 2 cups of coffee and it holds me over. As a side note, I did get the gastric sleeve, but I still struggle with this and I’ve gained some weight back. I know I have to fix my brain on this part. Feeling the feelings in that “drop” moment will be new and an interesting thing. Sorry I have rambled on so much.
Hi Lisa!! I really enjoy your question, it’s a good one! Breakfast is honestly tricky for a lot of people, because it can feel scary to eat outside of physical hunger while you gain your footing with listening to your body’s cues. That said, I’m a fan of eating breakfast when you want to, regardless of hunger levels. Even if you’re not hungry, breakfast is usually a good choice because you’re fueling your day. It’s not “overeating” because your day is only just beginning and we need fuel for energy. Those are my thoughts, anyways. See, we are hardly rambling here because it’s a good question with a lot to unpack!
I have never seen this before.it is intriguing. I love the stop drop and feel,I think that’s right.
I am so glad the Stop, Drop, & Feel resonates with you Linda!